Well, we're back

[alitalf]

The journey home for Denvention was tedious but we arrived on time. Immigration was over in about 2% as long as in the USA - but I think that most countries allow their own citizens to return home with much less delay and officialdom than they allow tourists in.

Science fiction conventions (and events such as Oxonmoot) are the longest sustained periods when, it seems to me, I am among people with whom it is possible to have a relaxed conversation without, for example, having to figure out what part of what I think of as a common cultural background they won't have any referent for. It is part of the relatively small proportion of the year I don't feel that I am living among aliens, sometimes of questionable rationality.

Since I am techie all through just like the lettering in Blackpool rock, it also helps that I don't get the impression from those who are not themselves involved in science or technology that is is somehow beneath them. That cannot be said, on average, of RL.

We made a couple of new friends, one of whom is on LJ (hi wouldyoueva {fx: waves}). I got books signed by Charlie Stross and Tanya Huff, and have enough to read that I now need a reading holiday. I first started reading Charlie Stross' fiction because he spoke interestingly on panels at Eastercon. With Tanya Huff I started by reading the first two Confederation novels in a single volume, then found the Vicki Nelson/Henry Fitzroy series, and found that she is interesting on panels, and manages both to be insightful and make me laugh.

Comments

[meglorien.livejournal.com]

Welcome back!

[alitalf.livejournal.com]

Thanks!

[wouldyoueva.livejournal.com]

Waves back.

Maybe you should think about friending andpuff

[alitalf.livejournal.com]

I was thinking of that - and did so when you made the suggestion.

[romancinger.livejournal.com]

I know what you mean about having a relaxed conversation. With me, it's more about having a conversation about what really matters to me; I have a 'default mode' where there are things I just don't talk about. I find this relatively easy, because I've done it most of my life. Once upon a time it left me with little or nothing to say, but it's not so bad now - having children to talk about helps!

But there's nothing like being with people who are on the same wavelength.

[sally_maria]

You met Tanya Huff, yay! She seems like a cool person on her LJ, so it's good to know she comes over that way in real life as well. :-)